Bee Stings, Bug Bites, and Allergic Reactions: A Parent’s First Aid Guide
A parent’s guide to treating insect stings and bites — and knowing when a reaction is serious enough for emergency care.
For a bee or wasp sting: scrape the stinger out sideways (don’t pinch it), wash the area, apply a cold pack, and treat pain and itch. Watch for a severe allergic reaction (anaphylaxis) — trouble breathing or swallowing, swelling of the face, lips, tongue, or throat, widespread hives, dizziness, or collapse. If any of these appear, use an epinephrine auto-injector (EpiPen) into the outer thigh first, then call 911. If symptoms don’t improve about 5 minutes later and help hasn’t arrived, give a second dose if you have one (Canadian Red Cross / Heart & Stroke, aligned with ILCOR 2025).
Summer means more time outdoors — and more encounters with insects. For most children, a bee sting or mosquito bite is a brief, painful annoyance. But a single sting can trigger anaphylaxis, a life-threatening allergic reaction that requires immediate treatment. Insect venom is one of the more common triggers of anaphylaxis, though most children who are stung will only ever have a normal local reaction.
Every parent should know how to treat common bites and stings, recognise the early signs of an allergic reaction, and act decisively when the reaction is serious. This guide covers all of it.
Bee and Wasp Stings
Immediate First Aid
- Remove the stinger immediately — honeybees leave their stinger behind with a venom sac attached. Scrape it out sideways with a flat edge (credit card, butter knife, or your fingernail). Do not use tweezers or pinch it — squeezing the venom sac pushes more venom into the skin.
- Clean the area — wash gently with soap and water.
- Apply cold — hold an ice pack wrapped in a cloth against the sting for 10-15 minutes to reduce swelling and pain.
- Manage pain and itch — apply hydrocortisone cream or a baking soda paste (mix baking soda with a little water). Give an age-appropriate dose of ibuprofen or acetaminophen for pain, and an antihistamine for itching.
Source: Canadian Red Cross first aid guidance (bites and stings); Heart & Stroke Foundation of Canada.
Normal Local Reaction vs Concerning Reaction
| Normal Local Reaction | Large Local Reaction | Anaphylaxis (EMERGENCY) |
|---|---|---|
| Pain, redness, and swelling at the sting site | Swelling extends beyond 10 cm from the sting | Swelling of face, lips, tongue, or throat |
| Itching around the sting | Swelling increases over 24-48 hours | Difficulty breathing, wheezing, or a tight feeling in the chest |
| A small raised welt | Area may feel warm and hard | Hives, rash, or flushing across the body (not just at the sting) |
| Resolves within hours | Resolves within 5-10 days | Dizziness, confusion, rapid pulse, or loss of consciousness |
| Home treatment is fine | Monitor closely; see a doctor if worsening | Use EpiPen immediately. Call 911. |
Recognising anaphylaxis: act on signs affecting two or more body systems (e.g. skin plus breathing, or breathing plus circulation), per Canadian Red Cross / ILCOR 2025 first aid guidance.
When to Use an Epinephrine Auto-Injector (EpiPen)
How to Use an EpiPen
- Remove the blue safety cap.
- Hold the auto-injector in your fist with the orange tip pointing down.
- Press the orange tip firmly against the outer mid-thigh (through clothing is fine) until it clicks. The outer thigh is the correct site — a large muscle that absorbs the medication quickly.
- Hold firmly in place for the time stated by your device, then remove.
- Call 911 immediately — even if symptoms improve, a second wave of anaphylaxis can occur. Keep your child lying down or seated.
- Note the time of injection. If symptoms do not improve about 5 minutes after the first dose and emergency services have not arrived, administer a second dose if one is available.
Source: ILCOR 2025 CoSTR (second dose if symptoms are not relieved by the first) and Canadian Red Cross / Heart & Stroke first aid guidance; intramuscular epinephrine into the outer thigh is the primary treatment, and a repeat dose is given if symptoms persist about 5 minutes after the first.
Mosquito Bites
Mosquito bites are rarely dangerous in Canada, but they are extremely itchy and children tend to scratch them into open sores that can become infected. To treat a mosquito bite, wash the area with soap and water, apply a cold pack or anti-itch cream (hydrocortisone or calamine lotion), and discourage scratching. Trim your child’s fingernails short during mosquito season to reduce skin damage from scratching.
To prevent mosquito bites, apply an appropriate insect repellent, dress children in light-coloured long sleeves and pants during dawn and dusk when mosquitoes are most active, and eliminate standing water around your home where mosquitoes breed — flowerpot saucers, clogged gutters, birdbaths, and old tires are common culprits.
Source: Health Canada — insect repellents and safe use of DEET (age-based concentration and application limits).
Tick Bites and Lyme Disease
Blacklegged ticks (deer ticks) in parts of Ontario and other regions can carry the bacteria that causes Lyme disease. The risk of Lyme disease generally increases the longer the tick is attached, which is why prompt removal and daily tick checks are so important. According to the Government of Canada, a blacklegged tick usually needs to be attached and feeding for at least 24 hours before it can transmit the bacteria — but ticks should always be removed as soon as they are found, regardless of how long they may have been attached.
Source: Government of Canada / Public Health Agency of Canada — Lyme disease (risk and prevention).
How to Remove a Tick Safely
- Use fine-tipped tweezers to grasp the tick as close to the skin as possible.
- Pull upward with steady, even pressure. Do not twist, jerk, or squeeze the body.
- If the mouthparts break off and remain in the skin, try to remove them with tweezers. If you cannot, leave them and let the skin heal.
- Clean the bite area with rubbing alcohol or soap and water.
- Place the tick in a sealed plastic bag with the date noted. Some public health units offer tick identification, and tools like eTick can help identify submitted ticks.
Source: Government of Canada — how to safely remove a tick.
Spider Bites
Most spider bites in Canada are harmless and cause only mild local pain and redness. Canada does not have a significant population of dangerous spiders in most provinces, though the rare black widow may be found in some southern regions. Treat a spider bite like a mild insect bite: clean, cold pack, and monitor. Seek medical attention if the bite area develops a deep ulcer, the child develops a fever, or if you suspect the spider was a black widow (shiny black body with a red hourglass marking on the underside).
Prevention Strategies
- Dress strategically — light-coloured clothing (makes ticks easier to spot), long sleeves, pants tucked into socks in wooded areas
- Apply repellent correctly — use an insect repellent registered in Canada at the concentration Health Canada recommends for your child’s age; DEET goes on skin, permethrin on clothing and gear. Never apply DEET to infants under six months.
- Avoid sweet scents — scented lotions, shampoos, and bright floral clothing attract stinging insects
- Stay calm around bees — teach children to move slowly and calmly away from bees and wasps rather than swatting
- Cover food and drinks outdoors — wasps are attracted to sugary drinks and food, especially in late summer
- Do a full-body tick check — after every outdoor day, check behind ears, along the hairline, under arms, around the waistband, behind the knees, and between toes
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I know if my child is allergic to bee stings?
You typically will not know until the first allergic reaction occurs. A normal local reaction (pain, redness, and swelling at the sting site) is not an allergy. Signs of a true allergy include hives or rash far from the sting site, swelling of the face or throat, difficulty breathing, dizziness, or nausea. If your child has had a large local reaction (swelling extending more than 10 cm from the sting) or any systemic symptoms, consult an allergist for testing. Children with confirmed venom allergies should carry an epinephrine auto-injector at all times.
Can I use essential oils as insect repellent for children?
Natural repellents like citronella, eucalyptus, and lemongrass oil provide some short-term protection against mosquitoes but are significantly less effective and shorter-lasting than DEET-based repellents. Health Canada advises that oil of lemon eucalyptus not be used on children under three years of age. For reliable protection in areas with ticks or heavy mosquito activity, DEET-based products at the concentration Health Canada recommends for the child’s age remain the recommended choice.
Should I pop the blister from an insect bite?
No. Popping a blister removes the natural protective barrier over the wound and significantly increases the risk of infection. Keep the blister clean and covered with a loose bandage. If it breaks on its own, clean the area with soap and water, apply antibiotic ointment, and cover with a clean bandage. See a doctor if the area becomes increasingly red, warm, swollen, or begins to ooze pus.
How long after a tick bite can Lyme disease symptoms appear?
According to the Government of Canada, Lyme disease symptoms typically appear within 3 to 30 days after a tick bite. An expanding skin rash is a common early sign, but some people never develop a rash, so watch for other early symptoms including fever, headache, fatigue, and muscle or joint aches. If any of these develop after a tick bite, see your doctor promptly.
When should I call 911 for an insect bite or sting?
Call 911 immediately if your child develops difficulty breathing or swallowing, swelling of the face, lips, tongue, or throat, widespread hives or flushing (not just at the sting site), dizziness or loss of consciousness, rapid or weak pulse, nausea and vomiting combined with breathing difficulty, or if they have a known severe allergy and have been stung. Give the epinephrine auto-injector first if one is available, then call 911, per Canadian Red Cross and Heart & Stroke first aid guidance.
Sources & medical review
Reviewed by Milos Radojcic (Canadian Red Cross / Heart & Stroke / Lifesaving Society First Aid & CPR Instructor, 10+ yrs). Anaphylaxis and epinephrine guidance aligned with the 2025 ILCOR First Aid consensus and Canadian Red Cross / Heart & Stroke Foundation of Canada first aid guidelines. Repellent guidance from Health Canada; tick and Lyme disease guidance from the Government of Canada / Public Health Agency of Canada. Last reviewed July 2026.
